Unlock the Life You Deserve:

Transform, Dream, Thrive

You’re not stuck—you’re evolving. Whether you’re facing burnout, chasing an “impossible” dream, or learning to slow down, Evolving Whole helps you break through the barriers keeping you from the life you want. Let’s turn your struggles into stepping stones toward success.

Burnout to Balance

Feeling drained from pushing too hard? Ambition shouldn’t come at the cost of your well-being. This program helps high-achievers reset, realign, and reclaim their energy—without sacrificing success.

Programs That Change Lives

Slow Down Strategy

Always busy but never at peace? Slowing down isn’t about doing less—it’s about doing what matters most. Discover how intentional living can bring clarity, focus, and fulfillment..

Dare to Dream

Told your dream is “too crazy”? Whether it’s a career pivot, a lifestyle shift, or an unconventional goal, we’ll help you map a clear, achievable path to make it real.

Soul-Aligned Summer Hypnosis and Guidebook

Ditch the burnout and busy-ness that usually hijack summer

Feel confident saying NO to what doesn’t align

Tap into her subconscious to find clarity about what she really wants

Make bold, soul-aligned decisions—without guilt

Abbey

Meet Abbey: The Transformation Coach, Therapist and Subconscious Change Expert Who’s Been There

Abbey Sangmeister, MS.Ed, LPC, ACS didn’t just choose this path—it rose up from within her. A deep listener. A truth-teller. A guide through the wild terrain of reinvention.

With 16+ years as a Licensed Professional Counselor, transformational coach, and subconscious change expert, Abbey helps women in their 30s, 40s, and beyond stop shrinking, pretending, or waiting for permission—and finally build a life that feels like theirs.

Before you map out your next strategy, Abbey knows you must return to your inner blueprint—the truth buried beneath burnout, pressure, and the rules you never wrote.
Because healing doesn’t happen in your head.
It happens in the body, the breath, and the subconscious layers we’re taught to ignore.

Through a potent blend of science, nervous system tools, NLP, and soul-deep subconscious work, Abbey helps high-achieving women dismantle the patterns, pressure, and past identities that keep them stuck. So they can rise rooted, clear, and unshakably aligned.

She became a Single Mom by Choice at 41 through IVF—not because it was easy, but because it was true. When the world said wait, she said go.
She walked away from the script. And walked straight into herself.

Now she helps other women do the same—burn the rulebook, reclaim their fire, and build careers, families, and inner lives that actually feel good.
Fierce. Free. Fulfilled. And whole.

Abbey is the founder of Evolving Whole and the host of the podcast The Open Road: Through Life’s Seasons. A visionary with both Ivy League training and real-world grit, she brings compassion, clarity, and radical permission to every space she enters.

She knows:
You don’t need more hustle.
You need to come home to
you.

Two women sitting at an outdoor table, surrounded by lush green plants, engaged in conversation and smiling, with coffee cups in front of them.

Why Coaching with Abbey

Because insight alone isn’t enough—you’re ready for real change.

With 15+ years of experience as a licensed therapist, coach, and NLP practitioner—and an Ivy League education to back it up—I combine deep personal growth work with real-world strategies that move the needle.

This isn’t surface-level coaching. I help you clear the beliefs and patterns that keep you stuck, and then guide you toward bold, aligned action. Whether you’re navigating a transition, redefining success, or simply done playing small—I offer the tools, clarity, and grounded support to help you rise.

If you’re ready to feel empowered, confident, and clear on what’s next, let’s begin.

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Praise for the Programs

“From my first appointment with Abbey, I immediately felt a level of comfortability. Abbey always gives me 100% of her time and attention, and I thank her for her patience with me while I navigate my way through my anxiety, stress and insecurities. She always tells me exactly what I need to hear instead of what I want to hear, and is never afraid to tell me i’m doing something wrong. Abbey always provides me with solutions that help me become the best version of myself. I would definitely not be the person I am today without her guidance.”

— Client

“Thought I’d take a couple minutes to thank you for listening. And not just for me but for all the people who may or may not realize just how special and comfortable you make them (us) feel!!! You have a gift...it’s a gift not all possess!!! There are no coincidences in my life and I am grateful to have you in mine...so....I thank you for the gift of ‘you’.

— M.V.

“Therapy with Abbey has helped me so much over the years. In the very beginning, I was hesitant about therapy in general. However, she worked with me and over time, I began to open up more. Now, I can’t imagine what my life would’ve been like if I never started therapy with Abbey. I would recommend working with her to anyone seeking counseling.”

— Client